I’ve been experiencing a very common problem. Every Dominatrix is aware of these instances. I am talking about people who request a “Lifestyle” Domme.

Lifestyle Dominatrix means DOING SESSIONS FOR FREE or in exchange for Gifts. Exactly the same thing in case of “I‘d like you to be my Girlfriend” is a synonym for “I‘D LIKE FREE SESSIONS”.

Let me expand a little more . It might be VERY hard to grasp it for you all, that I also have to eat (just like you), I have to pay for two of my apartments and much more.

SURE, I ENJOY being dominant and I love what I do, but I‘m not going to go out of my way to accommodate your fantasy for free. This is not a charity!

GIFTS: Gift is a token to express your appreciation, care, admiration or love. Gifts do not count as financial contribution. Whatever you give, I may accept and your gesture will be considered that you are trying to please me.

When you walk into a restaurant, you can not pay for your food with gifts. You also can not tell the waiter to give you 50% off your dinner just because you will be their frequent visitor in the nearest future.

You have a day job that you ENJOY DOING ? . I am sure you also ENJOY getting paid for it. In the same instance, I enjoy what I do, but I expect to be paid in full for my time, driving and effort.

You want to be in my presence and take me out to movies, dinners, drinks and to have a Gorgeous Girlfriend Experience – Be kind to PAY me for it, like you pay for ALL best things in your life.

I’m a Ferrari. Want ME to be in your life? You have to Pay for it. Ferraris also require a high paid monthly maintenance.

If you can settle with Prius or 2003 Mini Cooper, then go to any other Dom to negotiate rates and policies.